Saturday Night Live Specials

My favorite TV show has always been Saturday Night Live. Well, that's not really truly, I really got into Batman when I was 6, then Gilligan's Island through high school and then there was the Rockford Files. Anyway I find SNL's irreverent humor and clever sketches to be fascinating and sometimes disturbing all at the same time. I don't watch it every week or even the entire show when it's on. I'm a wimpy fan, I usually fall asleep before the credits roll. Susan usually falls asleep before it even comes on. But I always look forward to watching whoever is hosting, who the musical guest is, the political satire sketches and anytime Christopher Walken is hosting I try to drink Coke or coffee and make it to the end. His franchised sketch, The Continental just kills me every time.

I remember watching if not the first episode, the first season as a, I don't know, 14 year old? I was sitting in my parents house on a Saturday Night, we were eating in the kitchen and this crazy show came on that was really funny. I think my dad was at work, he was a shift-worker and sometimes worked nights. And that was great because I'm sure his Southern, Pentecostal upbringing would have made him change the channel as soon as Chevy Chase, Gilda Radner or Dan Akroyoid began some "off color" skits.

As for Southern related comedy sketches, there have been many that have poked fun at the south of the mason Dixon lifestyle including Colonel Angus Comes Home, Appalachian emergency Room and Suel Forrester Southern Lawyer. And who can forget Dana Garvey's Church Lady who came back a few weeks ago and gave us a mini revival by interviewing Justin Beber and the Kardashina Girls. I know, I know, Church Lady is not really a Southern sketch, but I spent a lot of time in Southern churches as a kid and I can "testify" there's a lot of church ladies in the South y'all.

In celebration of my life time love for SNL, we here at Slippin' Southern have decided to offer a "Saturday Night Live Special" in my Etsy shop every week this summer. And here's how it works. Starting next Saturday night, 7-25-11, during the SNL program, I'll offer a percentage off your purchase when you make it during the program that night. Discount amounts will vary from week to week. During the week, leading up to Saturday night, I'll be giving hints via Twitter, Facebook and in my Etsy shop as to what the SNL discount code will be for that week. Finally at the beginning of the show each week, I'll offer a 10% Off code on my Etsy shop.

So enjoy SNL this week. It's going to be hosted by Jim Carrey and the musical guest is my wife Susan's favorite, The Black Keys (really, she has the CD and everything y'all). So that's where I'll be. Enjoy the show y'all! And to really kick things off. I'll give you 20% Off of your order TONIGHT if you email me at slippinsouthern@gmail.com or convo me on Etsy. Live from New York, it's Saturday Night!

Who do you call Big Daddy?

A couple of weeks ago I put up a new sign in my Etsy shop called "Big Daddy", It's sold several times now that Father's day is at hand and it's the one item in my shop that customers lovingly volunteer the reason they are purchasing the sign and many of them are quite charming. Here are a few...

- "I call my step dad big daddy so this is soo perfect! Thanks so much!"

- "Thanks so much ~ this will be perfect...my hubby has been Big Daddy since our first kiddo was born".

- "I love this! We've called my father Big Daddy ever since I can remember. I had to get this for Father's Day.

In case you didn't know, Big Daddy is a character from the 1958 film Cat on a Hot Tin Roof that was adapted from the Tennesee Williams play by the same name. It was directed by Richard Brooks and starred Elizabeth Taylor, Paul Newman, and Burl Ives. It's a story about Brick, an alcoholic ex-football player who drinks his days away and resists the affections of his wife, Maggie. His reunion with his father, Big Daddy, who is dying of cancer, jogs a host of memories and revelations for both father and son.

Another more recent Hollywood film (1999) staring Adam Sandler was titled Big Daddy where he plays a lazy law school grad who adopts a kid to impress his girlfriend, but everything doesn't go as planned and he becomes the unlikely foster father.

My personal brush with the name Big Daddy has happened two times in my life.  Back in college at School of the Art Institute of Chicago I was the head resident at the Herman Crown Center Dormatory. That was in 1983, I was called Big Daddy by many of the residents on my floor. Actually they called me Big Daddy Bunny because my girlfriend at the time who is my wife and creative partner today had drawn a picture and pasted it to my door of a large Easter-ish bunny wearing jeans and a plaid shirt. At the top she wrote "Happy Birthday Big Daddy Bunny". Everyone on the floor saw it, got a big kick out of it and it kinda stuck for the rest of the year.

The second time was at a job I had in Washington D.C. at a publishing company. I was a creative director and my boss often called me Big Daddy since I was in charge of a staff of 10 people. It was kind of charming and an endering name.

Being called big daddy is a powerful title. When folks call you that, it is a sign of affection, respect and power. So who ever you call Big Daddy, give 'em a big hug when you do it and let them know you love them. Happy Fathers day to all of you Dad's and Big Daddys out there!

Nehucky Farm: Slippin' Southern's Studio & Home

Susan and Me at Tryon Palace, New Bern, NC last summer. 

One of our  favorite historical places to visit in NC.

Have you ever visited an American historic home like Monticello or Mount Vernon and imagined what would it be like to actually live there today? Here at Slippin' Southern our family lives and works in our own historic 19th century farm house called Nehucky Farm, located along the Contentnea Creek in Snow Hill, North Carolina. We purchased this house a year and a half a go and are in the process of a full rennovation to bring her back to her original condition.
The rear portion of the farm house dates back to 1880 and was purchased by G.W. Mewborn in 1903 and has remaind in their family for three generations. Mr. Mewborn was a hard working, promenent planter as well as a cattleman, livestock man, dog and pig breeder. As his family and farm grew he added on the front section in 1905 as seen in the picture below.

Nehucky Farm, home of Slippin' Southern and the Havens-Morris family
sits in the middle of 300 acres of coastal farmland in Snow Hill, NC.

Along with the farm house, other structures at Nehucky Farm include a chicken house, two pack houses (tobacco barns), smoke house and silo. The farm house and it's outbuildings sit on a 2 acre plot with an additional 2 acres in the rear for gardening. We only purchased the homestead portion of the farm, Nehucky Farm today consist of 300 acres that are still farmed. The structures however are a mere shadow of what his operation once was. Mr. Mewborn at one time farmed over 3000 acres in several neighboring counties. He had many more barns here as well as at other fields. There was also a dog kennel, pig farm, pastures for cattle, water tank and stables for mules.

Follow along with our son Greyson as he renovates one of our two pack houses

at his blog "a boy and a barn"

The farmland around the house today is leased to a local grower. This summer tobacco is the crop being planted. As I write this I can hear the workers planting in the fields with their tractors and other equipment. It's really quite an operation. Below is a picture taken from our studio window of field hands hard at work planting sweet potatoes last year.

Much of todays' farming is still very labor intensive and requires
many hands at planting and harvest time. These farm laborers
are preparing to plant sweet potatoes from the back of a tractor.

There's another significant historical story at Nehucky Farm that dates back even farther than G. W. Mewborn. In 1713 the Tuscarora Indians constructed a fortress on the Northeast corner of the farm which was the site of the deadlyest battles between U.S. forces and Native American Indians in U.S. history. Not much has been done to memorialize this event because of its delicate subject matter. However, Archaeologists affiliated with East Carolina University excavated the site here a few years ago and collected thousands artifacts. To this day there is still discussion within local government on how to further memorialize this significant historical event.

Many Tuscarora Indian artifacts have been excavated from the Nehucky fields. This is an arrowhead I recently found while jogging along one of the farm roads on the property. 

As I create and sell my signs and letters here and sell them on the internet, I often wonder what Mr. Mewborn would think if they could see his historic house today being transformed and preserved as an artists studio and home instead of its origianal agrarian operation. If you've ever wondered what it would be like to live in a historic house, it would be something like what goes on here everyday at Slippin' Southern's Nehucky Farm.

Tornado Rips Through Slippin' Southern's Snow Hill, NC

Tornado passing by the front of our house about 3 miles away.

All is quiet now, it's Sunday night with a full moon, clear skies and a cool 55 degrees but it was a different story here in Slippin' Southern's quiet little town of Snow Hill in Greene County, North Carolina just 24 hours ago. 

We had been watching a line of storms moving across the middle of the U.S. for the past few days and the local media had told us that it would most likely come through our area on Saturday afternoon or evening, and this is one of those times they totally got it right. Here at our studio and home we spent the first half of the day completing a few orders, shipping and picking up supplies for the week ahead plus getting something for dinner from our favorite grocery store in Greenville, Fresh Fields for the evening ahead since we knew we might be kept in by the storm.

A downed power line we encountered on our way to see the tornado aftermath.

By about 5:20 p.m. it all of a sudden turned very cloudy and dark. I walked out on our front porch and just watched the violent rain and wind, then it started to hail. I was also thinking to myself, in the movie Twister, isn't this when the tornado comes? At first the hail balls were about the size of your thumb, then they got larger, doubling in size. Then moments later I looked to the southeast horizon and noticed a funnel cloud that seemed quite large coming down from the deck of dark clouds above it. It was far enough away that I could not hear it but from all of the videos I've ever seen, it looked like the real deal.

It moved quite quickly across our eastern horizon. About the speed of a quick moving cloud. No sound, hardly any lightening or thunder either. I called to my family who were indoors to come out and see it. My daughter came out first, then Susan, our son was in route coming home from work in Goldsboro. We were worried about him too. In about 5 to 8 minutes, the tornado managed to move across the horizon and finally out of sight to our northeast. By now we had lost power for about an hour. When it came back on we started watching local news to see what they were reporting.

Andy's Restaurant on Monday after the tornado.

By now our son arrived home safely and we were preparing diner and discussing the events of the evening when our daughter received a phone call from a school friend who told us that a tornado had just passed through town, took out a popular restaurant, Andy's, and that the middle school's roof had caved in. It was at that moment that we all looked at each other at once and said "Let's go see it!"

The four of us all piled into our Blazzer that I had parked in one of our barns which I never do unless a storm is eminent. We pulled out and headed south on highway 58. As we got down to Route 13 the local sheriff had a roadblock so we had to take a roundabout way around our town to get near the impact area. We had to weave all around many back roads to get into town. Along the way we were traveling down one particular road when we came across a downed power line. As we drove over it we passed a wooded lot that had been stripped of it's leaves and many large trees were on the ground or snapped in half about 10 feet up their trunks. In the distance what looked like a barn was totally flatted. We then drove just 100 feet further and saw a very old large house that had half of its roof torn off. There were many cars and people that had arrived on the scene to help these residents.

One of the houses near Green Co. High School, many of these homeowners suffered considerable property damage.

 As we arrived near Andy's, there were people everywhere. Just like us, many locals had driven, walked and biked into the parking lot of the local stores near where an EF2 tornado had came came through a thick wooded area, hit a small strip mall, lifted a couple of new homes off of their foundations, damaged several others, totally demolished a historical farmhouse and pack-houses that were slated to be Snow Hill's new Farmers Market, leveled the local softball field and park, demolished a new small used car dealership, leveled a fruit stand and took out the roofs of several houses and business in the near area.

We then decided to go the the middle-school and see the damage there. We easily passed through a police roadblock and made our way to the school. I noticed that I had a low fuel light so we made what I thought would be a quick fuel stop. It turned into a 20 minute ordeal since credit card machines were not working making everyone get cash first. Finally, we went on towards the school but never made it, as we got close police roadblocks were set up which turned us back. Along the way however, we saw many homes with downed trees and damaged roofs.

This home just of of Route 58 in Snow Hill was lifted from its foundation and moved about 100 feet.  The homeowner rode the storm out in her bathroom thinking how painful it was going to be to die, she was on the local news.

At this point the sky was looking dark again so we decided to head home since we did not want to get caught out in our truck in case another tornado came through. It took some time to get home since our normal way was littered with road blocks, traffic and debris. Throughout the evening each of us commented as we watched the storms move northeast away from our area on our local news how lucky we all were to not be effected directly by this terrible storm. The whole event wasn't scary like I thought it would be, it was more surreal, you just could not believe it was happening as it was happening. I'm 50 and this was the first time I've ever witnessed a live tornado.

At the time of this posting there have been 30 deaths and many more injuries by this line of deadly tornadoes that hit North Carolina Saturday night. The cost of the devastation is still being tallied. In our town of Snow Hill officials estimate the damage to be over 7 million dollars. I've seen pictures of the damage to our middle school and I believe that it alone would be over 7 million dollars to repair so I'm sure these numbers will rise in the days to come.

School has been cancelled for this week in Green County and Spring Break was scheduled for next week giving the local children a two week vacation. Which works out pretty good because it will take some time to sort things out here in our little town of Snow Hill. Our hearts and thoughts go out to all the unfortunate folks all over North Carolina who've been touched by this terrible spring storm of 2011.

Slippin' Southern Finds Success at Three Months

We hit a milestone the other day with our new Etsy shop, Slippin' Southern. We have now sold more items than we have listed in our shop. And that's quite an accomplishment if you have ever been in retail. It's tough to come up with an idea and sell it to another person. It's even tougher to keep coming up with new ideas and continue selling them to others. But we've managed to get this bird off the ground and we are lifting off with 39 sales since we opened in mid January of this year!

The name Slippin' Southern comes from a conversation that my wife and I had when we first moved down to North Carolina. I grew up in the south. Over the years as a professional artist and art director I've tried to sound professional and tame my southern accent and phrases as much as possible to sound intelligent and be persuasive to others. But once we got settled here before I knew it I was "fixen" to go to the store and asking if Y'all know where something was all over again. So as my wife says "I'm "Slippin' Southern."

The initial concept of our shop is to create signs that were based on sayings that folks in the South say in their daily conversations. Examples include affectionate names like "Shug" and "Darlin" as well as names things you say to the one you love like "Luv-Ya". Of course we've received requests for several custom signs which we are very happy to do. Food is another category that is unique to the region. Grits, collards and shrimp are also staples on the Southern table.

Just a few of our Southern expressions in wood!

In addition to words we thought some shapes would be fun eye candy for the shop too like our Trophy Buck, Blue Marlins, Flying Pigs, Rabbits, Horses and Labrador Retrievers. These are great Folk Art style silhouettes we would hang in our house.

Another popular item has been our wooden letters and ampersands. Who doesn't love to see the first letter of their last name enlarged and on the mantle, bookshelf or over their bed? It's like having a modern day family crest for your castle. And ampersands, I believe, say to the world, hey, I read, I'm smart and I've made it.

My latest wooden letter was created just this week. It's from a typeface I created called Deep Fried Doughnuts. It is based on vintage advertising sign-age from Krisy Kreme Doughnuts which have always been very popular in the South. I offer two sizes of wooden letters that customers can order from this face. They are available in all of our 16 colors.

Our studio is inside the front parlor of our historic farm house in Snow Hill, North Carolina which we purchased a year and half ago. We also have two other shops which also offer our unique brand creativity and style, Middleburg and The Barn Of Middleburg. Both are at Etsy.com.

Of course we've got big plans coming soon so stay tuned. And Thanks to all our Southern friends near and far...we'll keep bringing those soft notes of the the South to you.

www.SlippinSouthern.com